Spotting cheating, what with all the mobile devices nowadays, is easier than ever before. However, we are going to go ‘back to basics’ when it comes to this article. We want to talk to you about some of the more hidden signs that your partner is cheating. Before you dive into this, you do have to remember that these signs do not necessarily mean that your partner is cheating, it is more of a general guide.
This is a common thing in ‘cheating’ partners. They try to do things on the dot as to not arouse suspicion. Is your partner arriving at home at the same time each day? Are they making phone calls to you at the same time every day? Does it seem like it has become almost ritualistic in nature? Well, there is a good chance they may be cheating.
Change in Routine
Did your partner have a routine when they got home? Has that routine completely changed without any reason? Well, this could be an indication they may be cheating. One thing to really look out for here is whether they are needing to take showers the second they walk through that door. This is a sign that cheating may be on the cards. After all, they are wanting to wash off the smell of their ‘bit on the side’.
Going Out Alone
Is your partner making excuses for not wanting you to tag along where they go? For example; if they are going to the shops but insist you do not go with them? This is a clue that they may be doing something along the way which you probably would not be happy with. Maybe he got a secret girl friend or he is meeting with blonde escorts.
Their Nerves Start To Show
Keeping a big secret can take a massive toll on a person. You will notice it in their behavior. You will notice it in the way that they look. Now, we must stress that depression and anxiety do not necessarily indicate that a person may be cheating. There could be some other thing which is causing them to feel that way. In either case, you are probably going to want to talk to your partner and find out what the issue is.
Working Days Seem Longer or They have to Travel
It is likely that this is something that is going to rouse suspicion. Unless you know they are genuinely trying to make it as far in their company as possible, then talk to them about it. Find out why they are acting that way.
At the same time, you may start to notice increased expenses come out of both of your accounts e.g. drinks, meals and hotels that you never made use of.
Takes More Pride in Appearance
Those who are cheating tend to start taking more pride in their appearance. They may head to the gym more. They may try to change up their style a little bit. They may even clean their car a little bit more (this could indicate they are hiding the presence of another woman)
Of course, we would never advocate jumping to conclusions. It is important that you do your own research to find out whether the person is cheating or not, but it is still worth putting the effort in to talking to them.